Do they consider it rape if the victim enjoyed it involuntarily? This is a good question that was brought up while I was talking to one of my friends, who will, of course, remain anonymous. This is how she described it. I see, um, I told him I just wanted to cuddle, and he insisted, so no he didn't comfort me atall. I also thought, when is the next time is someone gonna touch you, to myself, but I still didn't want it. Afterwards hedidn't even cuddle me, he got up and cuddled with . So nothing was accomplished, just more hatered towards men.